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The Director Who Refused to Break His Actors: The Origin Story of Stephan Perdekamp and the Method That Changed Everything

Discover the Perdekamp Emotional Method (PEM) origin story, how director Stephan Perdekamp built a safe and direct body-based approach to emotion for actors worldwide

In the 1990s, European theater was famous for intensity.  And infamous for how directors pushed actors past their limits.

Emotional breakdowns were treated like trophies.

Pain was “truth.” And young performers in cities like Berlin, Los Angeles, New York, and Chicago were told that suffering was simply part of the craft.

But one director refused to follow that script.

The Perdekamp Emotional Method origin story begins with Stephan Perdekamp, a young artist who looked at the emotional harm around him and said no more.

Discover Stephan Perdekamp's PEM Method origin story
Stephan Perdekamp, creator of the PEM Method

Instead of breaking actors, he started building a humane, body-based way to train emotion safely, creating a comprehensive acting method. Sarah Victoria, a sharp, fearless collaborator, helped turn this acting technique into a global method reshaping performance culture around the world

The Starting Point of the Perdekamp Emotional Method PEM Origin Story

Stephan Perdekamp came up during a time when emotional risk was confused with emotional harm. Directors pushed actors to “open the wound” and dig into personal trauma for every role. What he saw felt wrong; brilliant performances built on broken people.

He witnessed actors leave rehearsals shaking, crying, or numb. Some struggled to return to daily reality. Others lost track of boundaries. In our interview, Sarah recalls that older approaches were so destabilizing that “you can lose the ability to identify reality.”

PEM Master Instructor Sarah Victoria leading PEM 1 in NYC., Perdekamp Emotional Method origin
PEM Master Instructor Sarah Victoria leading PEM 1 in NYC.

Stephan didn’t want to be that kind of director.
He didn’t want applause built on someone else’s collapse.

So he did what true innovators do, he questioned everything.

And then he built something new.

Inside the Experimental Lab Where a New Method Was Born

Turning Emotion Into a Physical Skill

The Perdekamp Emotional Method origin story begins quietly, in a small rehearsal room where Stephan ran private experiments with actors. Instead of asking them to remember pain, he studied how the body naturally creates emotion.

Breath. Muscle tone. Micro-movements. Nervous-system patterns.

Actors discovered they could reach fear, joy, grief, or aggression without touching old wounds.

Actors discovered they could reach fear, joy, grief, aggression and the vast palette of emotions and feelings directly without touching old wounds

PEM Master Instructor Sarah Victoria leading PEM 1 in NYC, Perdekamp Emotional Method origin
PEM Master Instructor Sarah Victoria leading PEM 1 in NYC

It was relatable in the best way: like discovering an emotional “switchboard” you didn’t know you had. And yes, some early exercises looked funny from the outside. Watching actors practice fear runs would make even a Berliner at 4 a.m. crack a smile.

But what mattered was this:
intensity no longer required self-harm.

For performers used to high-pressure environments, think LA pilot season, Broadway rehearsals in Manhattan, or back-to-back shows in Vegas, this approach felt like oxygen.

It also made space for a more fun-loving rehearsal culture. Actors could dive into emotional storms, reset instantly, and then enjoy real life, without carrying the character home.

Sarah Victoria, PEM
Sarah Victoria, PEM Master Instructor

The Arrival of Sarah Victoria: The Missing Piece

A Collaboration That Changed Everything

When Sarah Victoria met Stephan Perdekamp and his method, she instantly recognized that this is a world class acting technique that could speak to thousands of actors. More importantly, she had lived through unsafe training and instantly recognized the value of his approach.

Stephan had tested, solidified, and finalized amongst other things:

  • emotional triggers through physical cues
  • how breath changes alter the nervous system
  • how to release intense emotion cleanly
  • how to protect actors from psychological overload

If something didn’t feel safe, Stephan rebuilt it.
If something wasn’t repeatable, he rewrote it.
If something risked harm, it was gone.

Her performances in the PEM Ensemble proved the technique’s power. Sarah brought courage and the willingness to be the face and voice of PEM and share it with so many actors worldwide for the last decade.

She helped transform a small theatre lab into the global force PEM is today.

From a Small Studio to a Worldwide Method

A Revolution Built on Safety, Science, and Respect

When directors began observing PEM, they were stunned. Actors showed grief, rage, or love on command — and then snapped back to calm neutrality.

One director watched a grief demonstration and asked, astonished:

“You don’t have to do anything else?”

No trauma.
No emotional hangover.
No cruelty disguised as art.

Sarah Victoria has been teaching PEM within the German speaking countries since 2004 and Internationally since 2011 and has reached about 3000 people in workshops and online sessions from 55 countries, across 5 continents.

Overall, over 10,000 people have done shorter or longer PEM courses in the past 2 decades.

Word spread fast, across Europe first, then Australia, now to the US. Today, PEM is taught in major cities including Los Angeles, New York, Chicago, Seattle, Portland, Miami Beach, Sydney, Brisbane, Berlin and Hamburg

Performers love it because it protects them.

Directors love it because it works.
And audiences never know the difference, except that the acting feels even more alive.

It’s a method that respects human beings, supports artistry, and still leaves room for flavor — real food, real joy, real off-hours life.


FAQ Perdekamp Emotional Method (PEM) Origin

Q: What makes the Perdekamp Emotional Method different from traditional acting techniques?

A: PEM uses the body, not personal trauma, to trigger emotions. It’s designed to keep the mind calm while allowing intense emotional expression.

Q: Is PEM safe for beginners?

A: Yes. The method is structured to protect mental health, making it ideal for new actors and seasoned professionals alike.

Q: Can non-actors use PEM?

A: Absolutely. PEM is used in wellness, coaching, and personal development because it teaches emotional regulation through the body.


A Future Where Art Doesn’t Hurt

The Stephan Perdekamp’s PEM Emotional Method origin story reminds us that better art comes from better care. Stephan and Sarah built a method that lets performers feel deeply without losing themselves — a method shaped not by ego, but by empathy.

In a world where mental health finally matters, PEM offers a new path forward: strong art, safe artists.

Visit www.pem-acting.com,  follow @pem.acting and PEM Master Instructor Sarah Victoria to explore workshops, On Demand courses, and long-term training options.

Stephan Perdekamp’s PEM Emotional Method origin story, how Stephan and Sarah built a safe, body-based approach to emotion for actors worldwide.

Elizabeth Delphin
Elizabeth Delphin loves a good time! A fun concert, a good dinner out with friends, those weird artsy-fartsy festivals. If she's not at the office or at home, she's likely walking her dog Milo at Runyon Canyon (seriously, sometimes she goes 2-3 times a day).

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